I/me is the real problem generator. In any critical situation if we think once by replacing ourselves at the place of opponent we will easily find out the real matter and the problem. All problems invent just because of my view, my opinion, my way etc in short my attitude make us bitter in front of anyone indeed sometime without any reason or on minor talks we overreact. Minor problems become major in seconds only because we never realize what the other person thinks or what is his frame of experience. It is true that all of us having different views, ideas and opinions according to different experiences ..
If we brings we attitude or just for a moment we suppose our selves at the place of opponent side we find out that there is in fact no problem or issue we are arguing... just a difference of concepts and ideas or views.
What i think that its just better to have unique and different concepts and ideas but to rule...
Never ignore the Idea of other person just mold it with yours!
If we brings we attitude or just for a moment we suppose our selves at the place of opponent side we find out that there is in fact no problem or issue we are arguing... just a difference of concepts and ideas or views.What i think that its just better to have unique and different concepts and ideas but to rule...
Never ignore the Idea of other person just mold it with yours!
Hmm in short your post is all about empathizing- putting yourself in ones' shoes..
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